Tuesday, September 9, 2014






WHAT HAPPENS . . . ?

When a member of the family ‘comes out’ . . .
Sunday, October 12, 2014
12:30 to 3:00 PM
St. Matthew Church hall
5401 Loch Raven Boulevard, Baltimore, 21239
WHAT HAPPENS . . . ?
When a kid comes out at home . . .
On Oct 12th come and hear people tell their stories.
Hear parents, adult children and a pastoral counselor talk about
‘coming out’ at home
Come and Listen to people you may know  
There will be time for Q & A - Refreshments will be served



For more information: goodandgonnagetbetter@gmail.com
or contact LEAD: website - http://www.leadlgbtministry.org/









Saturday, August 16, 2014

IS THE FIREFIGHTERS CHARITABLE FOUNDATION A SCAM? LOOKS LIKE . . .



Today, I received a call from the "Firefighters Charitable Foundation."


A quick check at the Charity Navigator
website shows Firefighters Charitable Foundation gets a score of only 28.49 out of a possible 100.

Here is the problem:
only a fraction of the money raised
by the Firefighters Charitable Foundation 
goes to any charitable purpose
Charity Navigator reports that "fund raising expenses" chew up 87.7% of the money raised; administrative expenses get 5.2% more.

This leaves only 7% for actual charitable purposes.

Steer clear of the Firefighters Charitable Foundation. 

Give your money locally to the firefighters in your community.


Thursday, July 31, 2014

Ray Rice's Many Mistakes



Today at a news conference, Ravens running back Ray Rice will list his many mistakes, including things like this:
  • Back in the third grade I pushed a second-grader down on the playground.
  • Once, driving home, I was daydreaming and almost pulled into a neighbor’s driveway.
  • I did not know that lots of elevators have working cameras on them.
  • Couple years ago, I fumbled away the football.
  • Last year, I cold-cocked a woman in an elevator, knocking her unconscious.
  • One time in a restaurant I ordered something just to try it and I didn’t like it.
  • Last year or maybe the year before, I dropped a pass from Joe, which would have advanced our position eight or ten yards or so.
  • One time I did not lace up my shoe right and it came undone on second and four and I slipped down without advancing the ball.
  • One time, I dragged a woman off an elevator after knocking her unconscious.
  • On the sideline once, I picked up my helmet and was about to put it on but it was not my helmet.
  • One time I forgot to bring my ticket to the dry cleaners and they had to look through all their tickets to find my stuff.



Background:

Friday, July 25, 2014

Along the Rio Grande, Riding Shotgun with Racists



Couple weeks ago, Frederick County, Maryland, Sheriff Chuck Jenkins announced he was going on a “border tour” to get a “first hand look” at the refugees from Central America - many of them unaccompanied children - who have been crossing from Mexico into the US by the thousands in recent weeks.


Now the gullible sheriff is back home in Maryland, offering interviews and soon, we surmise, he will be heading to D.C to share around his new knowledge.


According to the Associated Press, Sheriff Jenkins’  “fact finding mission” was being sponsored by a group known for fact-free screeds against immigrants:  the Federation for American Immigration Reform (FAIR).


Too bad Sheriff Jenkins does not pick his sponsors better than this.


According to the Southern Poverty Law Center, FAIR was founded by John Tanton, a prominent figure in our contemporary nativist, i.e., Tea Party movement.


John Tanton carries a lot of weight with the Tea Party crowd and for good reason. He has complained long and loud about a supposed “Latin Onslaught” heading into the United States. In his own crude words, Tanton frets about the Hispanic birth rate in the US, which compares unfavorably, Tanton says, to the birth rate of White Americans.


According to John Tanton, here’s the problem:
“those with their pants up are going to get caught by those with their pants down!”
Apart from the blatant racism espoused by its founder John Tanton, the Southern Poverty Law Center reports that FAIR:

“has long been marked by anti-Latino and anti-Catholic attitudes”
“has mixed this bigotry with a fondness for eugenics, the idea of breeding better humans”
“has accepted $1.2 million from an infamous, racist eugenics foundation” (That would be the Pioneer Fund, which according to the New York Times, has promoted theories affirming the genetic superiority of whites.”) (Sourced below.)
The Southern Poverty Law Center adds that FAIR:
“has employed officials in key positions who are also members of white supremacist groups.”

“has promoted racist conspiracy theories about Mexico's secret designs on the American Southwest”
Now that he’s back home, Sheriff Chuck Jenkins of Frederick County, MD needs to answer a couple questions:


Sheriff Jenkins, are you in agreement with the FAIR nonsense about immigrants or did you merely want free airfare to the Rio Grande?


Sheriff Jenkins, did you take vacation days for your FAIR junket to Texas or did you bill all this as official, salary-based anti-immigrant “fact finding” to the taxpayers of Frederick County?


SOURCES:

Frederick County, MD Sheriff Joins Border Tour



Thursday, July 3, 2014

There is no 911 the Immigrant Kids Can Call. That is Why They Come to the US


Comment in Response to Ross Douthat's NYTimes Oped about thousands of unaccompanied kids from Central America, entering the US from Mexico:

To Ross Douthat:

You are cruelly clueless about what is driving kids and young people to rush north. Believe it or not, the USA is not seen as a paradise that millions of people want to sneak into. The young people of Central America are running for their lives.

Like the 14 year old interviewed on Aljazera, who said he was taken out of school by a gang member (they have the run of the school), who insisted that he join up. He told his grandmother about this and she said, 'if you join, another gang or the police will kill you. At least if you go the the US, no one will kill you.' 


Or the other young adolescent, who said, a gang grabbed her and told her to give them her mother's cell phone number in the states, so they could extort money, pretending she had been kidnapped, but if the child did not give up the number, she really would be kidnapped.

It is incredible to me that you are so absurdly misinformed about Central America and the dynamics of the northern migration. It is as if you have just dropped in from another planet, coming here on a mission of obfuscation and deceit.


Ross, don't you get this: there are no police to be called who will respond and no other authorities who can protect these kids from gangs that the USA actually created in El Salvador. 

Ross, have you never heard this? Have you never read a word about this? Or, more tragically for your readers, you know this but have decided not to let actual facts influence what you write?

Ross, have you never looked into how El Salvador is divided by a truce (not a clean victory) after a bloody civil war, and that the country is divided still?

Ross, have you not discovered that the US added to the civil war problem in El Salvador a generation ago by propping up one side so the truce, and no clear victory, could be engineered in the first place? 

Ross, have you never informed yourself about how the USA, more than a docade ago, began to deport gang members back "home" to El Salvador, a country these kids were born in but had no memory of or prospects for survival in, apart from the gang affiliations they brought with them?

Ross, is it possible, you know nothing about any of this? Is it possible, Ross, it is wilful ignorance, which enables you to say: the unaccompanied minor refugee phenomenon is only  a matter of better US security at the southern security? 

Ross, are you really that badly informed? 

Ross, are you unable to find out how favorably the current Administration stacks up to previous one on the question of robustness of its border security program? Isn't this fact relevant to your insistence that the current surge of unaccompanied kids into the US is merely a question of border security?

A Salvadoran friend of mine, age 19, was murdered in El Salvador in 2012. A bunch of kids with one or two adults in the mix grabbed him, held him down and dropped an enormous stone on his head, then stripped his headless body and left him where his mother would find him. The boy's uncle was a cop, who began to ask around. Well, the cop-uncle is now in the US, having fled to avoid threats directed against him and probably against his own children.

Don't you get it? There is no 911 you can call, Ross. There is nothing.

What the hell would you do, Ross, if you or your children were threatened with death if you did not pay the extortion demanded by a 15 year old, whom you did not even know, but who could tell you the route your daughter took to and from school? 

Ross, would you just stay put, and let yourself be killed? Let your kids be killed?

Ross, permit me to make a suggestion: 

please inform yourself before you settle comfortably into a further round of smug, fact-free pontificating about a region of the world you are deliberately clueless about - free also, I might add, from the slightest practical suggestion about what to do with the kids who make it into the US. 


Monday, October 7, 2013

Bigotry on the Baltimore County Council - We Can Fix This in 2014.


Oct 7 2013 

The 7th Day of the Month - Marks the anniversary date, when five members of the Baltimore Council hung out the NOT WELCOME sign to immigrants.

The bigoted initiative was led by the GOP-affiliated council member, David Marks, who touted his hostility by diverting campaign funds to cover costs of the anti-DREAM act initiative.

Mr. Marks then mislead the public when he announced, falsely, four of his colleagues signed a "letter" endorsing the anti-DREAM Act campaign.

When given the opportunity to welcome rather than discourage people from moving in, other jurisdictions are reacting differently.

Compare the narrow-minded perspective of our Baltimore County elected officials to the realities elsewhere: 


" . . . struggling cities are trying to restart growth by luring enterprising immigrants, both highly skilled workers and low-wage laborers. In the Midwest, similar initiatives have begun in Chicago, Cleveland, Columbus, Indianapolis, St. Louis and Lansing, Mich., as well as Detroit, as it strives to rise out of bankruptcy. In June, officials from those cities and others met in Detroit to start a common network."
With the 2014 elections, we have a chance to correct the unfortunate presence of bigots on the County Council. Let's do that. 

Before you vote for:


Vicky Almond

Kathy Bevins

Todd Huff

David Marks

John Olszewski

Ask: 

(1) are your new views on DREAMERs now lined up with the voters of Maryland?
(2) do you now support in-state tuition for All graduates of Maryland high schools? or
(3) are you still playing the politics of bigotry? 

Sources: 

NY Times, Oct 6 2013 - Ailing Midwestern Cities Extend a Welcoming Hand to Immigrants

Brian Sears in the June 8-9 2011 Towson Patch



Friday, July 19, 2013

President Obama: Treyvon Martin Could Have Been Me


President Obama today, July 19, 2013, made an extended statement about the killing of Trayvon Martin and the trial that followed which resulted in the acquittal of the killer, George Zimmerman. Here, according to the New York Times, is what the President said:
“I think it’s important to recognize that the African-American community is looking at this issue through a set of experiences and a history that — that doesn’t go away.” 
“There are very few African-American men in this country who haven’t had the experience of being followed when they were shopping in a department store. That includes me." 
“You know, when Trayvon Martin was first shot, I said that this could have been my son."
"Another way of saying that is Trayvon Martin could have been me 35 years ago.”
“I don’t want to exaggerate this, but those sets of experiences inform how the African-American community interprets what happened one night in Florida. And it’s inescapable for people to bring those experiences to bear.”
“I think it would be useful for us to examine some state and local laws to see if it — if they are designed in such a way that they may encourage the kinds of altercations and confrontations and tragedies that we saw in the Florida case, rather than defuse potential altercations.”
“Am I wringing as much bias out of myself as I can; am I judging people, as much as I can, based on not the color of their skin but the content of their character? That would, I think, be an appropriate exercise in the wake of this tragedy.”
“When I talk to Malia and Sasha and I listen to their friends and I see them interact, they’re better than we are. They’re better than we were on these issues. And that’s true in every community that I’ve visited all across the country.”
“That all contributes, I think, to a sense that if a white male teen was involved in the same kind of scenario, that, from top to bottom, both the outcome and the aftermath might have been different,” 
The Times reported that the President praised the judge in the case and said,
“Once the jury’s spoken, that’s how our system works.”
“For those who resist that idea that we should think about something like these Stand Your Ground laws, I just ask people to consider if Trayvon Martin was of age and armed, could he have stood his ground on that sidewalk?”
“And do we actually think that he would have been justified in shooting Mr. Zimmerman, who had followed him in a car, because he felt threatened?”
The Times reported that the president said he was not advocating “some brand new federal program.” 

But he said Americans should try to figure out new ways to 
“bolster and reinforce our African-American boys.” 
He said that he and the first lady, Michelle Obama, talk often about the black youth who need positive reinforcement.
“There are a lot of kids out there who need help who are getting a lot of negative reinforcement,” he said. “And is there more that we can do to give them the sense that their country cares about them and values them and is willing to invest in them?”
The White House has issued a video of the President's remarks: